When we are feeling good, spread it to others. Naturally our joy radiates to others. Imagining others receiving our joy can also be contagious. When we are feeling down, take others’ suffering and give them, as well as yourself, whatever is needed. Link it to our breathing. This tonglen practice of taking and giving transforms our mood bringing more joy. This joy goes out to others in a continuous cycle that spirals up. Whatever our situation, imagine using it to make others happy. By doing this, we also become happier.
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The Buddhist understanding of compassion
The word compassion is often misunderstood. In English it has Christian overtones that include pity, turning the other cheek, and weakness. It is often seen as powerless. But the Buddhist understanding of compassion is much […]
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Let’s maintain our sanity
Without humor we lose our humanity. Take deep breaths (away from others), and drop into the present moment. Feel fresh, alert, and relaxed. Always remember the tremendous suffering of so many others, especially during this […]
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A new beginning
Loss can easily be a black cloud yet with a silver lining. Losing your stuff opens up possibilities of freshness, of a new beginning. It allows us to leave aside presidence and inspires us to […]