Negative judgment towards ourself and others constantly is in the background, draining our inner peace and happiness. It can lead to suspicion, cynicism, and hopelessness. It distorts our wisdom as it abides in not understanding reality. Even in samsara it inhibits our cultivation of healthy self-confidence. Healthy self-confidence is where we put no one down, not ourself, nor others. So please recognize negative judgment and let it go. It does not help us or others. Cultivate healthy self-confidence.
Healthy self-confidence is essential for compassion. It covers both sides of the equation. Humility leads to concern and compassion for others. Self-confidence leads to taking care of ourself through self-compassion. Moving towards this attitude of […]
Just being introduced to the concept of healthy self-confidence is helpful. Of course getting there takes time, maybe a lifetime. It is putting no one down – not myself and not others. It frees up […]
Love brings self-confidence. Anger brings fear. Self-confidence comes from generosity, from thinking and caring about others. If you live your life with a genuine concern for the wellbeing of others, you will feel better about […]