Insecurity weakens our immune system and makes us miserable. We feel small. What use is it? Let’s engage this self-doubt at an arm’s length. Not pushing it away, but giving us room so that self-doubt is further away. There is space around us. We are no longer overwhelmed by self-doubt. Recognizing and repeatedly reflecting how this attitude is dysfunctional creates space. We can choose to part ways. Old dysfunctional habits are best left by the wayside. As we increase our thinking and feelings of concern for the welfare of others, naturally self-doubt lessens.
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Healthy self-confidence
In the last post I discussed boosting low self-confidence. It is important not to overshoot and become arrogant. Therefore, ‘healthy self-confidence’ is our goal. Healthy self-confidence is putting no one down, not myself and not […]
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Self-doubt can riddle us with guilt and paralyze
Self-doubt can riddle us with guilt and paralyze our actions. We are all valuable people in different ways yet we sometimes forget. Opening the heart and focusing outward towards others brings confidence and courage to […]
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Be gentle with
Blow your top with love. The next time you are irritated or distressed, blow your top with love. Remember the other person with whom you are distressed is stuck. They are stuck in their old […]