Be kind to yourself. You deserve it. Loving others starts at home. So love yourself. Be gentle with yourself. Give yourself a break. Give yourself some slack. Be grating ourselves for not being good enough is a chronic habit, nothing more than that. We can look this chronic habit directly in the eyes and say, “no more, I don’t need you anymore.” “You’re not good for me, not good for my heart, my mind, my spirit, or my body.” “So take a walk, and don’t come back.” Changing habits is not easy, but it can be done, step-by-step if we are committed to change. So make this commitment to yourself. Many people have stopped smoking even when there is a physical addiction. You can break a dysfunctional habit as well.
In our everyday life we have the strong habit to notice and judge others based on differences. It may be gender, age, skin color, ethnicity, country of origin, language and accent, sexual orientation, socioeconomic status, […]
Insecurity weakens our immune system and makes us miserable. We feel small. What use is it? Let’s engage this self-doubt at an arm’s length. Not pushing it away, but giving us room so that self-doubt […]
We tend to judge ourselves and compare ourselves with others. Sometimes we feel we are not as good as others. At other times we feel better than others. This is all the tricky mischievous ego. […]