Patience is golden. It gives us pause rather than kneejerk reaction. It allows us to take a deep breath, and consider the consequences of getting angry — making us unhappy, bringing future problems, not to mention the harm to the recipient. Mindfulness is the key, paying attention to what is happening inside of us. When we sense or feel early signs of anger, like frustration, irritation, fast heartbeat, loud or soft speech, jitteriness, etc., we start to practice patience. We can think the other person is not happy. Why? Happy people do not provoke. It always takes two to tangle. Recognizing the other person’s unhappiness, we can understand the situation better. With practice we not only cultivate patience, but also compassion.
Inner peace is essential for wellbeing. Without it we often feel anxious, fearful, and suspicious. So how do we cultivate inner peace? There is no magic. You’ve received all the advice/teachings. Now we must make […]
Whenever some problem arises (and when do they not!), remember to practice ‘tonlen’ – taking and giving. Think about other people and animals experiencing some similar problems. Silently take away their suffering, and give them […]
October 24, 2018 Human Values Meditation Practice Group We will learn about compassion and meditation from a video of the latest lecture by Dr. Barry Kerzin and we will practice meditation together. *Staff from Human […]