Patience is golden. It gives us pause rather than kneejerk reaction. It allows us to take a deep breath, and consider the consequences of getting angry — making us unhappy, bringing future problems, not to mention the harm to the recipient. Mindfulness is the key, paying attention to what is happening inside of us. When we sense or feel early signs of anger, like frustration, irritation, fast heartbeat, loud or soft speech, jitteriness, etc., we start to practice patience. We can think the other person is not happy. Why? Happy people do not provoke. It always takes two to tangle. Recognizing the other person’s unhappiness, we can understand the situation better. With practice we not only cultivate patience, but also compassion.
Sep. 15, 2018 Shantideva “A Guide to The Bodhisattva’s Way of Life” Shantideva “A Guide to the Boddhisattva’s Way of Life” is one of the most important Tibetan Buddhist texts regarding compassion. Dr. Barry Kerzin […]
Inner peace is essential for wellbeing. Without it we often feel anxious, fearful, and suspicious. So how do we cultivate inner peace? There is no magic. You’ve received all the advice/teachings. Now we must make […]