Sometimes we can’t decide what to do. The more we try the more paralysis sets in. We feel insecure and start to doubt ourselves. Insecurity makes it even harder to come to a decision. Anxiety overcomes us. Fear churns with the anxiety. We feel terrible. We feel trapped not knowing what to do. Celebrate! Celebrate! Celebrate! What a wonderful opportunity to see some of our dysfunction. Just recognizing it is magnificent. Finding ways to work with our dysfunction is even more magnificent. So thank you doubt. Thank you insecurity. Thank you anxiety, and thank you fear.
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Transform the darkness into light
Flip it. Just flip it! Michael Jackson might have said, “Beat it.” But just flip it. When you are blue, down in the dumps, when everything looks and feels very dark, just flip it. Remember […]
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What about self-compassion?
What about self-compassion? In our modern stressful world filled with anxieties and fears, insecurity often tags along. Sometimes insecurity fuels anxiety and fear. Sometimes anxiety and fear fuels insecurity. Self-compassion becomes very important. If we […]
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Finding the right balance of healthy self-confidence
We usually over-shoot or under-shoot. Either we become arrogant and too sure of ourselves, or we become insecure and too unsure of ourselves. Threading the needle finding health self-confidence, free from arrogance and insecurity, is […]