Sometimes we can’t decide what to do. The more we try the more paralysis sets in. We feel insecure and start to doubt ourselves. Insecurity makes it even harder to come to a decision. Anxiety overcomes us. Fear churns with the anxiety. We feel terrible. We feel trapped not knowing what to do. Celebrate! Celebrate! Celebrate! What a wonderful opportunity to see some of our dysfunction. Just recognizing it is magnificent. Finding ways to work with our dysfunction is even more magnificent. So thank you doubt. Thank you insecurity. Thank you anxiety, and thank you fear.
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Think about others
When you are happy think about others. When you are sad think about others. This makes our life meaningful. The more we dwell on our own narcissistic stuff the more we inflame our own negative […]
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Forgiveness and gratitude
The more we forgive the more we feel grateful. The more we feel grateful the more we forgive. These two — forgiveness and gratitude — are mutually supportive. They set the tone for the day […]
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How can we manage our anger and fear?
Often at the root of anger is fear. Gandhi thought this to be true, that fear is our worst enemy. They often go together – fear, uncertainty, doubt, discomfort, irritation, and then anger. How can […]