When you’re hot you’re hot. When you’re not, you’re not. But it doesn’t really matter. What matters is deeper. What matters is if you are happy and loving. What matters is how you motivate your day. Is it solely to make money? Is it solely to look good? Is it solely to develop a good reputation? Is it solely about “number one” – me? If so, then life is quite boring. For “number one” is not that interesting! Richness in life comes with diversity. Many people with different understanding of the world — different cultural influences; different educational experiences; and different life experiences. We miss all of this richness if we only think about ourselves. Treat yourself. Be more involved with others and their experiences. Enrich your own life through others. Learn from them. Respect them. Love them. On a deeper level we are all the same in wanting happiness and not wanting pain!